{"id":2189,"date":"2019-08-13T08:19:03","date_gmt":"2019-08-13T06:19:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/christianeameya.com\/?p=2189"},"modified":"2021-09-06T08:30:31","modified_gmt":"2021-09-06T06:30:31","slug":"healing-the-feminine-with-touch","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/christianeameya.com\/de\/healing-the-feminine-with-touch\/","title":{"rendered":"Healing the feminine with touch"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Just in case you didn\u2019t know yet, I love touch!<\/p>\n

And I believe we all need more touch in our lives.<\/p>\n

Touch is one of my major love languages. It is even written into my human design that it is important for me to connect and communicate with others through touch.<\/p>\n

I love to give and receive touch. I love to give and take pleasure from touch.<\/p>\n

But what we all really need is touch that comes from presence, touch without wanting anything, or hoping to get somewhere.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Touch that is loving, caring, holding.<\/p>\n

Touch that produces the love hormone oxytocin and relaxes our nervous system.<\/p>\n

Touch that gives us a feeling of belonging, of being connected and appreciated.<\/p>\n

Most of us didn\u2019t receive enough nurturing touch as children.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Once we leave our mother\u2019s womb, we are taken away from her, to get cleaned, medically checked, to give her a rest.<\/p>\n

But the first skin contact for a baby is so important.<\/p>\n

Many of us have never been breastfed.<\/p>\n

The effects of missing out on this first source of nourishment can be felt mentally, physically and energetically for the rest of our lives.<\/p>\n

And even if we were lucky and received lots of loving touch, hugs and cuddles as children, we come to a point in our teenage years where we find it awkward to share comforting physical intimacy with our parents.<\/p>\n

The next moment in our lives where we receive touch is generally as we enter into our first intimate sexual connections.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Then touch often becomes something to get somewhere.<\/p>\n

It comes with an agenda or a goal.<\/p>\n

I see this as a big problem, especially in women\u2019s sexuality.<\/p>\n

A woman can feel whether a man is needy in his touch and usually she gets easily bored, her body shuts down or she withdraws sexually from her partner.<\/p>\n

But there are some magical keys to how our feminine body opens through touch.<\/p>\n

Once a woman feels loved, safe and relaxed and doesn\u2019t have to perform, she blossoms in ways she might never have thought possible.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Touch is so healing.<\/p>\n

Through presence and loving touch, a woman can release trauma and numbness, as well as emotional and physical pain.<\/p>\n

She can feel nourished, confident, fully alive and as if she is coming home within the temple of her own body.<\/p>\n

A woman in her mid-fifties shared with tears in her eyes during the last Tantric Bodywork Immersion that this was the first time she had touched another woman\u2019s breast since her mother breastfed her.<\/p>\n

This was a major breakthrough to heal the relationship with her feminine side and other women around her.<\/p>\n

To trust other women.<\/p>\n

To feel safe with other women.<\/p>\n

Check out my Tantric Bodywork Immersion \u201eThe Art of Receiving\u201d Sept 16-22, 2019 in Sweden<\/a> and learn how to heal and nourish your feminine through love, presence and touch.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":2190,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2189","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-unkategorisiert"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/christianeameya.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2189","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/christianeameya.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/christianeameya.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/christianeameya.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/christianeameya.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2189"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/christianeameya.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2189\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/christianeameya.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2190"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/christianeameya.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2189"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/christianeameya.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2189"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/christianeameya.com\/de\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2189"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}