{"id":1918,"date":"2020-07-01T07:15:54","date_gmt":"2020-07-01T05:15:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/christianeameya.com\/?p=1918"},"modified":"2021-09-03T07:19:42","modified_gmt":"2021-09-03T05:19:42","slug":"not-good-enough-never-goes-away","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/christianeameya.com\/de\/not-good-enough-never-goes-away\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8222;Not good enough&#8220; never goes away"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 fusion-flex-container nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-right:0px;--awb-padding-left:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row fusion-flex-align-items-flex-start fusion-flex-content-wrap\" style=\"max-width:1144px;margin-left: calc(-4% \/ 2 );margin-right: calc(-4% \/ 2 );\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-flex-column\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-width-large:100%;--awb-margin-top-large:15px;--awb-spacing-right-large:1.92%;--awb-margin-bottom-large:15px;--awb-spacing-left-large:1.92%;--awb-width-medium:100%;--awb-order-medium:0;--awb-spacing-right-medium:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-medium:1.92%;--awb-width-small:100%;--awb-order-small:0;--awb-spacing-right-small:0px;--awb-spacing-left-small:0px;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-column-has-shadow fusion-flex-justify-content-flex-start fusion-content-layout-column\"><div class=\"fusion-image-element \" style=\"--awb-caption-title-font-family:var(--h2_typography-font-family);--awb-caption-title-font-weight:var(--h2_typography-font-weight);--awb-caption-title-font-style:var(--h2_typography-font-style);--awb-caption-title-size:var(--h2_typography-font-size);--awb-caption-title-transform:var(--h2_typography-text-transform);--awb-caption-title-line-height:var(--h2_typography-line-height);--awb-caption-title-letter-spacing:var(--h2_typography-letter-spacing);\"><span class=\" fusion-imageframe imageframe-none imageframe-1 hover-type-none\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"750\" height=\"737\" title=\"106457854_282006343213244_5487758071709788802_n\" src=\"https:\/\/christianeameya.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/106457854_282006343213244_5487758071709788802_n.jpg\" data-orig-src=\"https:\/\/christianeameya.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/106457854_282006343213244_5487758071709788802_n.jpg\" alt class=\"lazyload img-responsive wp-image-1919\" srcset=\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg%20xmlns%3D%27http%3A%2F%2Fwww.w3.org%2F2000%2Fsvg%27%20width%3D%27750%27%20height%3D%27737%27%20viewBox%3D%270%200%20750%20737%27%3E%3Crect%20width%3D%27750%27%20height%3D%27737%27%20fill-opacity%3D%220%22%2F%3E%3C%2Fsvg%3E\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/christianeameya.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/106457854_282006343213244_5487758071709788802_n-200x197.jpg 200w, https:\/\/christianeameya.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/106457854_282006343213244_5487758071709788802_n-400x393.jpg 400w, https:\/\/christianeameya.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/106457854_282006343213244_5487758071709788802_n-600x590.jpg 600w, https:\/\/christianeameya.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/106457854_282006343213244_5487758071709788802_n.jpg 750w\" data-sizes=\"auto\" data-orig-sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 750px\" \/><\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-1 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-flex-column\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-width-large:100%;--awb-margin-top-large:0px;--awb-spacing-right-large:1.92%;--awb-margin-bottom-large:0px;--awb-spacing-left-large:1.92%;--awb-width-medium:100%;--awb-spacing-right-medium:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-medium:1.92%;--awb-width-small:100%;--awb-spacing-right-small:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-small:1.92%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-justify-content-flex-start fusion-content-layout-column\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p>\u201cNot good enough\u201d never goes away.<\/p>\n<p>The mantra \u201cnot good enough\u201d tends to sneak in like a snaky underlying poison in many women&#8217;s consciousness. Repeating itself over and over again.<\/p>\n<p>When you are convinced of that belief, you may have everything it takes to live a life full of love, pleasure, following your divine purpose, but your self-doubts will sabotage you by telling you that you can\u2019t do it.<\/p>\n<p>That others are better than you, more intelligent, more educated, more beautiful, more successful.<\/p>\n<p>This belief makes you feel powerless, fearful, insecure, or anxious to take action in the direction your womb heart really desires to go.<\/p>\n<p>Or you think, you need to DO more. Work harder in your job, on your body, on your sexual healing, in your relationship. Become a better, more perfect version of yourself.<\/p>\n<p>That \u201cnot good enough\u201d will be there even if you have done years of spiritual work or personal development.<\/p>\n<p>It won\u2019t leave even if you are teaching, coaching, or leading others.<\/p>\n<p>Some days I wake up and feel incomplete, overwhelmed by the world, my own fears, and insecurities.<\/p>\n<p>In those moments I believe I am falling short compared to everyone else who seems to have it all figured out.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s usually when we go through big life changes and let go of old parts of ourselves to become someone new that these beliefs come to the surface. In times of uncertainty and stress, most of our deep wounds and habits get highlighted.<\/p>\n<p>Because at the end we are all human. We are here to learn and grow.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s so easy to overlook our greatness and infinite potential and to become disconnected from our divine purpose.<\/p>\n<p>Especially if we choose to walk the path of a leader or wanting to become a coach or teacher.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI am not good enough to write my book that probably will change millions of women&#8217;s lives. What do I have to say?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI will wait until I have hundreds of diplomas and certificates to prove that I am good enough to take on this new project that will help many women start their own heart, womb, and soul centered businesses.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI will open my heart to this man only when I have processed and healed all the pain of my past breakups, or only if I finally really love myself and don\u2018t need any love and approval from the outside anymore.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>We all have a choice, and we can choose between a place of \u201cnot good enough\u201d or fear, and one of confidence, and do what love would do.<\/p>\n<p>Being loving, compassionate, and forgiving to yourself as you are with your students, clients or children.<\/p>\n<p>Identifying your limiting beliefs and fears. Seeing them and loving them for what they are and choosing new ones that feel empowering and are very likely more true.<\/p>\n<p>Remember your values. Why are you here? What are you serving?<\/p>\n<p>And if you can\u2019t remember, call your best friend. Or surround yourself with women who feel naturally more confident and remind you of your beauty and magic.<\/p>\n<p>You are here to make a difference in this world the way only you can. And at the end this is all not only all about you.<\/p>\n<p>So what are you choosing today?<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<div id=\"block-0e4554a453be1bf6dc4f\" class=\"sqs-block html-block sqs-block-html\" data-block-type=\"2\">\n<div id=\"yui_3_17_2_1_1630646173729_682\" class=\"sqs-block-content\">\n<p class=\"\"><em>I have spaciousness for 2 x 1-1 mentoring women in July. 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