{"id":1911,"date":"2020-07-10T07:09:07","date_gmt":"2020-07-10T05:09:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/christianeameya.com\/?p=1911"},"modified":"2021-09-03T07:13:59","modified_gmt":"2021-09-03T05:13:59","slug":"why-having-a-mentor-is-vital-to-your-pleasure","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/christianeameya.com\/de\/why-having-a-mentor-is-vital-to-your-pleasure\/","title":{"rendered":"Why having a mentor is vital to your pleasure"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 fusion-flex-container nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-padding-right:0px;--awb-padding-left:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row fusion-flex-align-items-flex-start fusion-flex-content-wrap\" style=\"max-width:1144px;margin-left: 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style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-width-large:100%;--awb-margin-top-large:0px;--awb-spacing-right-large:1.92%;--awb-margin-bottom-large:0px;--awb-spacing-left-large:1.92%;--awb-width-medium:100%;--awb-spacing-right-medium:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-medium:1.92%;--awb-width-small:100%;--awb-spacing-right-small:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-small:1.92%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-justify-content-flex-start fusion-content-layout-column\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><p class=\"\">5 years ago I made a big choice, I hired a mentor for the first time.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">I was already teaching yoga and offering private sessions, plus I was running my first women\u2019s circles, but somehow I felt stuck.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">I wasn\u2018t serving my clients in the way that felt aligned and successful for either of us.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\"><strong>I was exhausted running from one yoga studio to the next and I felt frustrated with one time sessions, because all we did was touch the tip of the iceberg.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"\">At the same time it felt hard to put myself out there to fill up my women&#8217;s groups.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">I knew I had everything\u00a0 it takes to change the lives of thousands of women but I couldn\u2018t bring the parts of my gifts together in a way that let me reach their hearts and wombs.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">Making the choice to work with a mentor over a long term period felt super scary, completely nuts to be honest.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">It was a big stretch for me personally but also financially.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\"><strong>Even though I knew I needed that support more than anything else, my mind found lots of excuses to not do it &#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"\">I can do it all myself.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">I don\u2019t have the money.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">What if this doesn\u2018t work out and I bankrupt myself?<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">What if I have to push myself and eventually burn out again?<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">I had just arrived in Bali. I had hardly collected the pieces of my broken heart and life. I had lived mainly on my savings for the past few months.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">In fear I called my parents and asked them for the first time in my life if they would have my back in case I fucked it up. But they said, no.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\"><strong>That was the moment I clearly knew I could only change the pattern I had been running all my life if I finally offered myself the possibility of a new experience and said YES to myself.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"\">I had to collect my own self-worth, courage and trust to jump without a safety net.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">And guess what, I was rewarded with more than I could have ever imagined.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\"><strong>The same principle applies for every aspect of our lives: love, sex or business.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"\">If you don\u2019t love yourself or your body, if you do not experience the pleasure or orgasms you would like, if your relationship feels difficult because of a lack of intimacy or you are frustrated in your work or you just know underneath it all there is way more for you, then you need support to change.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\">Playing with old tools isn\u2018t going to get you to where you want to be, or perhaps just as importantly, to how you want to feel from inside.<\/p>\n<p class=\"\"><strong>I know from all the work I have done with women in the last 5 years that you need someone who takes your hand and guides you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"\">A good mentor shows you a different approach, sees your shadows, helps you to move through resistance, gives you permission again and again and sees and believes in you even if you don\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p id=\"yui_3_17_2_1_1630645794609_684\" class=\"\">So the question is \u2026 are you ready to jump?<\/p>\n<div id=\"block-ab0046f96668bcf4f3d1\" class=\"sqs-block html-block sqs-block-html\" data-block-type=\"2\">\n<div id=\"yui_3_17_2_1_1630645794609_671\" class=\"sqs-block-content\">\n<p class=\"\"><em>If this completely terrifies you, I want to work with you. 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